In the last few days I’ve read a lot of articles that have been popping up on Twitter talking about how much is too much information to share in the new social media tubes. While some of them are just common sense, a lot of them take on the voice I can only describe as the “brand consultant.” Now, I have no problem with brand consulting (I do a little myself from time to time) and the concept of the “personal brand”. However, as with most things that come from the mouths of consultants and “gurus” in their blogs, most of what I’ve read is over generalized assumptions disguised as “rules.” We don’t need so many rules. (If you just thought “Badges?!?! We don need no stinkin badges.” when you read that last sentence, you are officially on my brain wavelength :p) Are there limits that you should have when posting to services like Twitter and the new and improved more internet exposed Facebook? Absolutely. But they depend on who you are, what you’re there for, and who your audience is. Honestly, they’re pretty much like the rules that you’d follow if you were talking to people anywhere in public. When you break it down, the internet is a public place, common sense and good manners prevail, but not to the extent that you become a sales pitch and nothing more. I can’t buy into the idea of essentially sterilizing your social media personality in the name of personal branding. That’s just not good marketing in general. Why? Because no one wants to buy boring stuff, and if you’re boring no one will want to buy you. And the fear of “alienating” your fellows by exposing some of who you really are is a sure fire way to becoming boring, predicable and just like all the other people afraid of the same thing. Do I need to know when you’re eating Cheerios? Maybe, if you’re a food critic, or you’re really trying to get in with Cheerio lovers. What about when you get a flat tire? Sure, because maybe someone can help, or if nothing else you have an interesting conversation starter about changing a tire where ever you happen to be. (Don’t believe me, tweet about something mundanely bad happening to you and see how many tweets of concern you get. Unless you’ve already alienated your subscribers by being totally boring you’ll get at least a few.) To put it simply, these stupid little details that aren’t “necessary” according to the gurus are actually very important. They act as conversation starters, insights into who you are so you become more than a square picture firing links to your blog and your website every few minutes. This fear of over sharing isn’t unjustified, but it’s very similar to a fear a lot of marketing directors have, and that’s the fear of failing. It’s the reason 80% of advertising and entertainment is derivative and it’s the reason that a lot of these so called social media experts are also derivative. (Don’t believe me? Find 5 and see if they don’t follow the: link to their own blog + link to other SM blogs + link to mashable + promote upcoming talks, books, podcasts, etc formula.) Copying something you know will work is the safe bet, and brands becoming more humanized, more conversational is new, uncharted territory. Ultimately some major player will take the risk, and we’ll see everyone else jump on board, to try and reap the same benefits. And the benefits of moving away from being a faceless entity and becoming a group of interesting people will be huge for companies of all sizes. At least until the robots take over the Earth, maybe that’s what all the gurus are planning for.