I've been thinking about this a lot in the last six months or so, and the hubbub over Google+ in the last few days has brought this back to the front of my mind. My question about "the new social" (a term I've heard people use more than I'd thought possible) stem from a situation like this, I'm sure you've been here if you're not a crazy facebooker/twitterer:***
- Friend A brings up some new, never before mentioned information about herself in conversation like, "So, when I have the baby I think I'm going to continue only eating only raw foods."
- I/you react in shock, shocked not by the intended news of the statement, "I'm going to continue only eating raw foods," but by the news of something big like a pregnancy. Says something like, "Wait....what? You're pregnant?!?"
- Friend A responds rather disgusted with,"Yeah, I posted about it on my Facebook wall/Twitter stream/Online social media do-dad, I can't believe you're not reading my updates!"
First of all, yes the above example is completely made up, so no I'm not talking about you if we're friends and I didn't know you were pregnant. I might be talking about you though if you rely on social media as a primary, one way, 24-hour news-esq stream about you and expect your friends to be following your every move there. This kind of situation is where my question comes from; is this the "new social" everyone is talking about?
What the heck is social anyway?
According to Twitter and Facebook (or Foursquare, or whatever your favorite "social" app is) the act of sharing some piece of information where everyone can see it is a social act. As a UX designer, that doesn't feel very social to me. Social interactions at there most basic look something like this:
or maybe something like this in the case of internet scale social interactions:
These diagrams happen everyday online. The first could be something like AIM, GTalk, or ICQ (no I'm just kidding, no one uses ICQ anymore), a DM on Twitter, a private message on Facebook, an email or a text message. It's a conversation. You know, that thing you did on your phone before you texted all the time.But it's just so much easier to text than have a phone call! I know, I'm right there with you. (For real, I'm a big texter.)
The second diagram could be comments on a blog, twitter @replies, a chat room, or the comments on a facebook wall post. It's still a conversation, it's just happening with more than two people. (The diagram should show the flow between the three smaller guys too, but that would have been a lot of arrows to deal with, and you get the idea.)
So by now I'm sure you're saying, "Thanks Tony, your diagrams are swell, but I already know this. What's your point?" The point is this is how these services were intended to work back in the before time — in the long long ago of 2005-07. And it's how they did work for the most part. I used Facebook in college and had actual conversations with people I had met briefly the night before, or in a class or at a football game, all after the fact. When I joined Twitter in 2007 I met lots of great people and had lots of great conversations. These two diagrams were how you would describe the systems back then. That was before it was "the new social" though. Before there were hundreds of millions of people and billions of dollars in advertising revenue at stake. Before your mom was on Facebook (but not before jokes about your mom were on Facebook, those were always there) and before Ashton Kutcher found Twitter. The new social, at least in my experience looks like this most of the time:
And it's this diagram that leads to conversations like the fake one (based on similar real conversations) above. This is your Facebook wall or your Twitter stream now, for the vast majority of users. This is "social media" that lets your great aunt Edna share pictures of her 55 cats with you and your whole family, or Kim Kardashian make $10,000 per tweet, or your best friend tweet about how great she felt after that run and that blueberry muffin with the smiley face blueberries from that cafe down the street with that cute barrista. It's also the "social" component of apps that you and I love like Foursquare, Facebook Places, DailyMile, Nike+, or Posterous (the platform this blog is running on.) Sure, there's a mechanism for 2 way communication, but how much do you really use it? How many of your friends use it? How many of their comments do you respond to? Remember, social now is simply the act of putting information out there to be consumed by your friends and followers and anyone who searches for you or your friends and followers on Google/Bing/Yahoo/Lycos (no, I'm kidding again. No one uses Lycos anymore either.)
And the most scandalous part of this whole "new social" thing is that it's not even new! We are already familiar with this model, it looks like this:
And it wasn't even new when the TV came out! Hell, TV stole it from radio, which stole it from the newspaper, which stole it from books, which stole it from scrolls...etc, etc. It's called broadcast, and there's nothing social about it.
So what's the big deal?
No, this isn't a rant about how my friends, or your friends, or society in general is slowly coming to expect social interaction to more closely resemble voyeurism or stalking, although that's probably something someone should write about. The problem is that more and more stuff is coming out claiming to be social when it's not, and that's stifling innovation for real social technology. And it's the designers' fault.
"Social media" is a great thing, don't get me wrong, it's just not very social anymore. It's enabling broadcast, and it's designed to be used that way. Why? It's easier to sell ads using these platforms if they're actually broadcast platforms, because marketers don't like to be talked back to and marketers are paying for it. Enabling almost a billion people to create their own, personal broadcast channel that's available to the whole world is a huge achievement. But it's not a social interaction. It's not a social experience.It's not a social technology. We all know what a social experience is, and if you ask those early adopters of current "social media," the possibilities felt endless in the early days, and the gratification of connecting with other people in a way where physical location didn't matter was huge. Social media was about collaboration, because social IS about collaboration.
Social interactions are not just about sharing, they're about interacting with other humans in a way that's meaningful for everyone involved. You don't have a social relationship with the cast of Glee, even though they're sharing their delightful story of overcoming high school adversity through singing the pop hits of the 70s, 80s and today. But according to the rules of social media you do. They're sharing content and you're consuming it. See how it's a broken definition? (unless you're actually friends with the cast of Glee, in which case, think of some other example smarty pants.)
In the last two and a half years we've actually not made nearly as many advances in social technology as have been claimed, we've just made great leaps in personal broadcast technology. I don't have an invite to Google+ yet, but when I get one I hope that the claims that it's "Just like Facebook, but it's not run by Facebook" are wrong. If they actually did it right, Google+ could be the first truly big breakthrough in social technology since Twitter...before it got really popular at SxSWi and started retooling to become a personal broadcast platform to bring in more VC money and ad revenues.
*** Full disclosure: I am actually quite guilty of saying, "Didn't you see that, I posted it on Twitter?"